Struggling to reconnect? Move beyond surface-level communication. Work with a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT #44845) specializing in the neurobiology of trust to rebuild your connection today.
Most couples don’t realize they are stuck in the “Distance-Isolation Cascade”—a physiological pattern that quietly sabotages intimacy and undermines trust. At In Touch Individual & Family Counseling, I help individuals and couples in Tustin and across Orange County break free from these destructive patterns.
(Read more: Understanding the Distance-Isolation Cascade)
My approach is not just about “talking through feelings.” It is rooted in Deep Clinical Insight and the Neurobiology of Trust. As a former Psychology Professor and therapist (NPI #1528652757), I provide a specialized “Trust Reset Protocol” designed to restore physiological safety and create secure, lasting connections.
I offer evidence-based approaches to help you achieve growth in your personal life and your relationships:
Marriage & Couples Therapy: Specializing in trust recovery and emotional reconnection.
Individual Counseling: Finding relief for personal struggles and emotional blocks.
ADHD Counseling: Managing the unique dynamics ADHD brings to adult relationships.
Premarital Counseling: Preparing for a lifelong commitment with a secure foundation.
Serving the local Tustin community and offering Online Therapy for all of California. View my current therapy fees and insurance information here.
Expert Clinician. Empathetic Mentor. Surfer.
For over 25 years, I’ve helped individuals, couples, and educators move from isolation to intimacy. My background as an ordained minister, former psychology professor, and licensed therapist allows me to heal the invisible dynamics that undermine peace at home or work.
I practice Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)—the gold standard for evidence-based relationship treatment. My goal is to provide a safe, warm zone where you can become emotionally open, attuned, and responsive to your partner. Not sure if we’re a fit? Check out my guide on choosing a marriage counselor.
When I’m not in the office or teaching, you’ll find me surfing the OC coast, mountain biking, or pursuing my passion for photography.
“I practice emotionally focused couples therapy, which is an evidence-based treatment that helps couples recognize how to be emotionally open, attuned, and responsive to each other so they can reshape their love relationship! My goal is to provide a safe, warm, and supportive zone that promotes your personal growth and a secure and lasting bond with your partner. If you’re interested in scheduling a free clarity call with me, don’t hesitate. Do it now while it’s on your mind!”
Verified Expertise for Trust and Peace of Mind
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist: California License #44845
National Provider Identifier (NPI): #1528652757
M.A. Clinical Psychology: Azusa Pacific University
M.A. Church Leadership (Family Systems Approach): Vanguard University
Think Kids: Collaborative Problem Solving (Trainer of Trainers)
PREP (Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program)
Prepare and Enrich Counselor
California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)
American Psychological Association (APA)
Unlike generalists who focus solely on communication exercises, Steve utilizes the Neurobiology of Trust. He identifies the physiological triggers of the Distance-Isolation Cascade, helping couples in Tustin achieve a “Trust Reset” that leads to long-term emotional safety.
While every relationship is unique, most couples notice significant shifts within 4–6 sessions. Lasting results and deep behavioral change typically occur within 8–12 sessions. Steve focuses on efficient, goal-oriented progress to help you reconnect as quickly as possible.
In your first session, we identify exactly what isn’t working and where you feel stuck. Steve creates a non-judgmental space to share your goals and relationship history, providing you with a clear roadmap of how we will move from distance to connection.
Yes. Clinical studies show that online relationship therapy is highly effective. Steve offers secure, HIPAA-compliant telehealth for all California residents, as well as in-person sessions at his Orange County office. See more FAQs here.
If your relationship feels strained or stuck, you’re not alone. Start your journey toward a healthier, more fulfilling life with a Free Clarity Call.
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